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It’s Online Book Club Day! But hold that thought; we’ll get to Wench in a minute.

First, I need to tell you I’m in two places today.

Obviously, I’m here, preparing to go all 3rd Grade Book Report on you, but also, I’m guest-blogging at Drama Mama’s popular site, where she has kindly dubbed 36×37 as “the Best Scoop of the Week.” In addition to featuring my blog this week, Drama Mama asked me to create an original piece using “window” as my one-word prompt. I decided to write about the first (and only) time I fired someone. It’s a regrettable moment in my personal history, but it makes a good story.

So, please stop by Drama Mama’s site today to say hello, read about her adorable family, and meet other bloggers through her Best Scoop of the Week feature—because it’s always nice to encounter new voices.

 

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Now. Back to Wench

Look. You didn’t read the book, I know that. And it’s fine. It’s a busy life we lead, right? Maybe you couldn’t find the book in time, or you just found out about The Club last week, or perhaps you threw the book against the wall in frustration the moment you finished chapter 7. (No? That was just me?) At any rate, this doesn’t have to be a problem. After consulting GB, my “idea guy,” I’ve decided to execute a fool-proof plan: I’ll tell you what the book is about, then I’ll ask questions you can answer without having read a word of this month’s selection. Agreed?

(Please say “Agreed.” I don’t want to spend the next three minutes talking to myself. I’ll be lonely.)

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Summary

Wench begins at Tawawa House, a vacation resort in Xenia, Ohio, that boasts a rather untraditional clientele: a cluster of pre-Civil War plantation owners and their favored, enslaved mistresses. At Tawawa House (which actually existed, and was eventually purchased by Wilberforce University), the men can enjoy their relationships in a relaxed social atmosphere, without their wives or the constraints of southern society.

The story follows Lizzie, mistress to Nathan Drayle, a poor horseman so skilled in his southern charm that he has managed to marry a woman of means. When Drayle discovers his wife, Francesca, is barren, he turns his attention to the then-12-year-old Lizzie and teaches her to read as part of a slow, sickening strategy of seduction.

Eventually, Drayle fathers Lizzie’s two fair-skinned children—Nate and Rabbit—whom he refuses to free despite Lizzie’s constant pleading. The children become currency in Drayle’s strange, entangled family dynamic by existing under Francesca’s doting but inconsistent care. There evolves a short-term exchange of sorts: Lizzie claims Drayle while Francesca claims his children—a subversive tug-of-war against Drayle’s overarching power.

Drayle and Lizzie visit Tawawa house from 1852-1855. Through the course of those summers, Lizzie cultivates friendships with three other mistresses: Reenie, the wizened one; Mawu, the gorgeous radical; and Sweet, the quiet, matriarch.

Each woman has a unique, sometimes sordid relationship with her master. Reenie’s owner (and half-brother) prostitutes her “services” to the house manager when he’s not too busy raping her himself. Mawu is regularly brutalized by her owner, who says he’s drawn to her because she always fights back. We’re not told much about Sweet and her master, but when all five of their children are taken in a bout of cholera, she sews burial dresses from scraps while he takes an extended fishing trip with friends. Finally, there’s Drayle, who is generous with affection, as long as Lizzie doesn’t ask for much and she bends to his will whenever (and wherever) the spirit moves him.

Not far from Tawawa House, there’s a resort for freed and thriving African Americans. Mawu is inspired by the site of prosperity and is hell-bent to catch her freedom, too. She spends the remainder of the novel convincing her friends to run away with her.

In a lesser novel, the four women would take flight together and make it to safety through the stalwart help of a string of dedicated northern abolitionists. For those of you who want to read the book, I won’t spoil the ending. Let’s just say the journey is long, and it’s not at all what you’d expect.

Opinion

Honestly, there are a few things I don’t love about this book. Here’s my main issue: In 290 pages, Perkins-Valdez tells us almost nothing about three out of four of her central characters. As a reader, I want the goods on character motivation, and I didn’t get what I wanted in that regard. I want to understand the undercurrent of tragedy before I can celebrate its burial. I need more to help me process this bitter mark on American history.

However:

When it comes to Lizzie, Perkins-Valdez never cuts corners. The book has four parts, and in each, Lizzie is artfully dissembled to reveal a loyal, intelligent, complicated woman who must decide what takes precedence in her conscience: her love for her children, or her love for herself; her faith in her lover or her faith in her friends; her desire for freedom or her need for security. She can’t conceive of these answers on her own; she finds them through sisterhood and tragedy.

So the themes are captivating. They’re the reason I kept reading and ultimately changing my mind about a novel that at first seemed to exist as an excuse to be salacious. Could you forsake your families for your freedom? Could you expose a friend in an effort to save her? Could you willingly exchange sex for special treatment? Could you truly love someone who doesn’t have your best interests at heart?

I’d recommend Wench for these discussion points alone. (Plus, despite Perkins-Valdez’s downfall in the character development department, she’s a damn fine writer.) I closed the book three weeks ago, and have been thinking about it ever since.

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Now I want to know what you think.(Remember our agreement?)

Feel free to answer any or all of the questions below.

1) Imagine that your family has been enslaved for generations. Your master treats you well whenever it suits him, and your children are sometimes favored at home. Would you make a break for freedom if given the chance?

2) Your friend reveals that she’s planning to flee from a man who brutalizes her. If she’s caught on the run, she’ll be killed. If you expose her plans, she’ll be beaten and humiliated, but at least she’ll be safe. What do you do?

3) An authoritative figure claims your children, and you’re powerless to stop it. How do you cope?

4) It’s 1855, six years before the Civil War begins. You discover a fleeing slave asleep on your property. Do you offer shelter and refuge, turn a blind eye, or turn him in?

I’ve done my part. Now the future of the Online Book Club rests in the balance. Sound off in the comments below. (Or, don’t, if you’re not compelled to. If at the end of the day the comments section is empty, please give me a few days to recover from my embarrassment, and let us never speak of this experiment again.)

Once I have all your answers, I’ll add my own to the bottom of the comments chain.

P.S. – Don’t forget to stop by Drama Mama’s site to read my new post today. Looking forward to seeing you there!

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It’s Online Book Club Day! (Or at least it was supposed to be.)

You thought I forgot! Don’t worry, it’s cool. I thought you forgot, too.

In fact, I’m almost hoping you forgot, because I’m about to do something I don’t think I’ve ever done before: I’m asking for an extension.

I’m a bit underwater at work. This means I need more time to go to the cyber store and buy cyber ingredients for the cyber crème brûlée I’m planning to make by using one of those tiny cyber kitchen torches. So fun.

 

(Bloggers, this also explains why I’ve been MIA in your comments sections and my own lately. I’m lashing with apologies, and will be back to reading your daily musings post haste, because I truly miss my friends!)

So. Instead of discussing Wench by Dolen Perkins-Valdez today, let’s move our Book Club meeting to Monday, January 31. If you’ve read the book, then I’m sure (like me) you’ll be ready to share your opinions about the major themes and characters from this author’s “startling” debut novel. (Note: If you haven’t read the book, you have a few extra days to get started. Don’t worry–it’s a fast read.)

Here’s an online reading guide to help whet your appetite for our discussion. It includes a plot summary and 21 questions to help you structure your thoughts.

Personally, I think we can come up with better questions than the ones in the guide. If you’d like to submit a question or talking point for the discussion, I’ll welcome it! Just e-mail me at 36x37blog@gmail.com.

Thanks very much for granting my extension request. If you took the time to read the book, the least I can do is thank you by preparing an engaging discussion. Have a lovely Tuesday. In the meantime, please enjoy the latest installment of…

Roadside Shoe!

(I’ve been saving this one for a special occasion.)

My brother sent me this Roadside Shoe a few weeks ago, after he spied it in the parking lot of a local pizza restaurant. On the surface, it’s nothing special. Just another Roadside Shoe!.

Roadside Shoe in the parking lot of Tommy's Pizza

Found in the parking lot at Tommy's Pizza

But. Here’s why this particular installment blows my mind. Here’s what makes it so unique.

The Roadside Insole.

Roadside Shoe insole

Have a Roadside Shoe!? Send it to 36x37blog@gmail.com. I’ll feature your shoe pic here, and if you have a blog, I’ll pimp that, too.

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On this, the last day of 2010, I feel I would be remiss to end the year with anything but a Roadside(ish) Shoe!

(Aw. And there you were, hoping thinking I’d forgotten about the Roadside game that’s sweeping the nation.)

This particular Roadside Shoe! comes to you from my friend and sorority sister, Jess. Not only is Jess a smart, witty, motivated person who home schools and eats well and exercises and apparently has more hours in her day than most people, she’s also the very person who coached me through my first few weeks of blogging. She has a blog of her own, too—Healthy for 100—where she tracks her pledge to take charge of her health. She’s worth a read for her strong, unique character and a giant, generous heart. Give her a try. (She’s on my blogroll on the right side of your screen.)

Roadside Shoe at Walmart

Here’s the story behind today’s Roadside Shoe!:

“I was shopping at Walmart on Christmas Eve and I spotted this shoe sitting on an empty shelf in a grocery aisle,” Jess wrote in her Wednesday morning e-mail. “There were no tags on the shoe and there were wear marks on it so I don’t think it was misplaced inventory. I immediately thought of you and snapped a quick picture. It’s an iPhone pic and it was very crowded. Sorry about the poor quality. :)

(Poor iPhone photo quality is something I understand. No apologies necessary, Jess.)

And now, a closing thought:

I used to make an annual list of resolutions, but I don’t do that anymore. I decided on December 31, 2009, to focus more on living life fully than on striving for perfection. That oath completely changed the way I view the world, others and myself. I’m a better person for it, and that’s more than I can say for any list of resolutions I’ve ever written. Now, I’ll blow a kiss goodbye to a truly great year, greet the newborn year with open arms, and wish you all the happiness, health and prosperity 2011 holds in its bounty.

A very happy New Year to you and yours. Enjoy a hearty, safe, fun-filled celebration.

Have a Roadside Shoe!? Send it to 36x37blog@gmail.com. I’ll feature your shoe pic here, and if you have a blog, I’ll pimp that, too.

P.S. – Have you ordered the January online book club selection yet? If not, time’s a-wastin’. The January 25th meeting is just weeks away!

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I wonder. Did you think I’d forgotten about our online bookclub?

Shame. You did! And there I was, looking up solid, compelling book options for our inaugural meeting.

I’ve been scouring various “Best of 2010” lists. Quite a few titles are new to me, and honestly, I wouldn’t mind reading them all, but I wanted to put on our ballot the ones I think will interest this group most.

So. Let’s take a vote. This is a literary democracy, after all.

1) Man In The Woods

By Scott Spencer, hardcover, 320 pages, Ecco, list price: $24.99

[Review] Publishers Weekly (via Amazon.com):

Spencer, a deft explorer of obsessive love and violence, confronts the consequences of doing wrong for all the right reasons in his exquisite latest. Paul Phillips, a master carpenter, is living in bucolic upstate New York with Kate Ellis, the woman Spencer first introduced, along with her beguiling daughter, Ruby, in A Ship Made of Paper. But Paul’s life begins to implode after a chance encounter results in an irrevocable act that no one witnesses, save a mixed-breed dog he renames Shep. Paul suffers the burden of his terrible secret: the fear of discovery and punishment and the equally disturbing fear of getting away with his crime. The incident and its fallout color his just-about-perfect life with lover Kate, now a recovered alcoholic turned famous inspirational writer, and particularly affects nine-year-old Ruby. As always, Spencer creates complex and genuine characters, the most marvelous character being Shep, the hapless rescue dog who endures abuse and becomes Ruby’s pet. Spencer portrays the dog’s life minus the sentimentality and anthropomorphism forced upon animals in fiction, and ingeniously uses Shep in this compelling story’s dénouement–which underscores how even the most loving relationship might not be able to redeem a deadly act.

Copyright © Reed Business Information, a division of Reed Elsevier Inc. All rights reserved.

2) Wench <– Official Selection

By Dolen Perkins-Valdez; hardcover, 304 pages; Amistad, list price: $24.99

[Review] Publishers Weekly (via Amazon.com):

In her debut, Perkins-Valdez eloquently plunges into a dark period of American history, chronicling the lives of four slave women—Lizzie, Reenie, Sweet and Mawu—who are their masters’ mistresses. The women meet when their owners vacation at the same summer resort in Ohio. There, they see free blacks for the first time and hear rumors of abolition, sparking their own desires to be free. For everyone but Lizzie, that is, who believes she is really in love with her master, and he with her. An extended flashback in the middle of the novel delves into Lizzie’s life and vividly explores the complicated psychological dynamic between master and slave. Jumping back to the final summer in Ohio, the women all have a decision to make—will they run? Heart-wrenching, intriguing, original and suspenseful, this novel showcases Perkins-Valdez’s ability to bring the unfortunate past to life. (Jan.)

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3) 20 Under 40: Stories From The New Yorker

Edited by Deborah Treisman, hardcover, 448 pages, Farrar, Straus and Giroux, list price: $16

[Review] via Amazon.com:

In June 2010, the editors of The New Yorker announced to widespread media coverage their selection of “20 Under 40”—the young fiction writers who are, or will be, central to their generation. The magazine published twenty stories by this stellar group of writers over the course of the summer. They are now collected for the first time in one volume.

The range of voices is extraordinary. There is the lyrical realism of Nell Freudenberger, Philipp Meyer, C. E. Morgan, and Salvatore Scibona; the satirical comedy of Joshua Ferris and Gary Shteyngart; and the genre-bending tales of Jonathan Safran Foer, Nicole Krauss, and Téa Obreht. David Bezmozgis and Dinaw Mengestu offer clear-eyed portraits of immigration and identity; Sarah Shun-lien Bynum, ZZ Packer, and Wells Tower offer voice-driven, idiosyncratic narratives. Then there are the haunting sociopolitical stories of Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, Daniel Alarcón, and Yiyun Li, and the metaphysical fantasies of Chris Adrian, Rivka Galchen, and Karen Russell.

4) Cleopatra: A Life

By Stacy Schiff, hardcover, 384 pages, Little, Brown and Company, list price: $29.99

[Review] via Amazon.com:

Famous long before she was notorious, Cleopatra has gone down in history for all the wrong reasons. Shakespeare and Shaw put words in her mouth. Michelangelo, Tiepolo, and Elizabeth Taylor put a face to her name. Along the way, Cleopatra’s supple personality and the drama of her circumstances have been lost. In a masterly return to the classical sources, Pulitzer Prize-winner Stacy Schiff boldly separates fact from fiction to rescue the magnetic queen whose death ushered in a new world order. Rich in detail, epic in scope, Schiff ‘s is a luminous, deeply original reconstruction of a dazzling life.

5) The Road

By Cormac McCarthy, hardcover, 256 pages, Publisher, List price: $24.95

(What? I haven’t read it yet, ok? It’s been high on my list since it hit the literary scene in 2006. But when I walk into Barnes & Noble, and that pretty scent of new and uncracked fiction distracts me, I forget about Cormac and his trademark despair. I need to start writing things down.)

[Review] Publishers Weekly (via Amazon.com):

Violence, in McCarthy’s postapocalyptic tour de force, has been visited worldwide in the form of a “long shear of light and then a series of low concussions” that leaves cities and forests burned, birds and fish dead and the earth shrouded in gray clouds of ash. In this landscape, an unnamed man and his young son journey down a road to get to the sea. (The man’s wife, who gave birth to the boy after calamity struck, has killed herself.) They carry blankets and scavenged food in a shopping cart, and the man is armed with a revolver loaded with his last two bullets. Beyond the ever-present possibility of starvation lies the threat of roving bands of cannibalistic thugs. The man assures the boy that the two of them are “good guys,” but from the way his father treats other stray survivors the boy sees that his father has turned into an amoral survivalist, tenuously attached to the morality of the past by his fierce love for his son. McCarthy establishes himself here as the closest thing in American literature to an Old Testament prophet, trolling the blackest registers of human emotion to create a haunting and grim novel about civilization’s slow death after the power goes out.

Copyright © Reed Business Information, a division of Reed Elsevier Inc. All rights reserved.

Logistics and Other Details <– Updated

The polls closed at 10PM ET December 16, and Wench is the clear victor with 54% of the vote.

Come back every day, of course, but plan to discuss the book on [updated date] January 31. (For the procrastinators in the house: This month, you get six weeks to read your book, rather than the traditional four. My gift to you.) I’ll have a series of discussion questions waiting, and perhaps a delicious cyber tiramisu. In the meantime, I’ll do some research about how discussion boards work on WordPress.

In February, my partner in crime Harsha can take over by hosting at her place (blog: H is for Happiness)—assuming I can talk her into it. ;)

Agreed? Let’s crack some books.

P.S. Should we pick a name for this group? Do you have suggestions? That’s what the Comments section is for.

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Hmmm.

You know, my friend and fellow blogger, Harsha (H is for Happiness), offered an interesting idea last week when I posted “Read ‘em and Weep (Occasionally): Given that so many of us tend to geek about books, why not start an online book club?

I’m into the idea! But I’m trying to suss out how it would work. Here’s what I’m thinking:

  1. Select a blog host for the month, and let the host choose the book. (The host doesn’t need to be a blogger; we could always use a guest-blogger format to cover the discussion.)
  2. Use social media to broadcast the title, author, meeting date and meeting location (blog URL).
  3. On the day of the discussion, the host would post a brief summary about the book, then end  with a list of discussion questions readers can answer in the Comments section.

Seems easy.

Or, if we’re looking for a real-time discussion, we could live blog or live Tweet it.

If you’re interested, or even if you just have sideline ideas to share, simply comment below or e-mail me at 36x37blog@gmail.com (@36×37 on Twitter). If there’s enough of a response, we’ll get literary. I’ll make the cyber baked goods if you bring the cyber Chardonnay…

M.

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